I am here!

At 48 years old we were blessed with a vivacious and healthy baby boy Kenneth Jr. I was expecting for my world to be different but not for it to be literally blown to bits. As I settled back into having a newborn after 22 years of not having to change diapers, breastfeeding, literally no sleep pass 2-3 hours a day and the emotional imbalance your body goes through with postpartum I realized that I was going to be in for a world of difference with our new son.

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At 48 years old we were blessed with a vivacious and healthy baby boy Kenneth Jr.- aka “RJ”, I was expecting for my world to be different but not for it to be literally blown to bits. As I settled back into having a newborn after 22 years of not having to change diapers, breastfeeding, literally no sleep pass 2-3 hours a day and the emotional imbalance your body goes through with postpartum I realized that I was going to be in for a world of difference with our new son. I am now 53 years old and it seems that I will have no opportunity to grow old anytime soon but who wants to get old anyway. The trade off has been some of the most amazing moments of my life. This is my story and how I began my journey as a generational mom. Hope to be able to share some the good, bad, funny and sometimes outrageous times in this space among other fun stuff.

Best, until next time!

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How Did I Get Here?

That saying is “I Love My husband”. I say that because when you are 48 years old with a 22 years old daughter out of college and you can see the destinations on the map where you want to travel and thinking of all the date night fun ahead, you have to love your husband to start over being parents.

IMG_1631 2On days when my 4 year old is asking 100 questions a minute and I am helping our 26-year-old daughter manage her Track and Field career along with being a mid-level executive I am forever trying to remind myself how I got here. I am blessed beyond what I deserve and know that the fun times and love outweighs the chaos that sometime fills my days and nights. Here is a backstory of how I am now a generational mom. I was a divorced single mom with a daughter and got re-married to my high school crush. Well, there is a saying I tell family and friends who want to know how I am handling being a mom to a children who are so far apart in age. That saying is “I Love My husband”. I say that because when you are 48 years old with a 22 years old daughter out of college and you can see the destinations on the map where you want to travel and thinking of all the date night fun ahead, you have to love your husband to start over being parents.

Until next time, Best!

Gen Mom!

Generational mom is a place for women and men who have children in various generations (also those who don’t) and working through the complexity of understanding and managing expectations while keeping your cool. Things get pretty interesting when you’re trying to parent a 26 year old and 4 year old at the same time. This blog is going to be a place to lay everything on the table the good, the bad and the hilariously funny.

Welcome to Generational Mom!

I am working through the complexity of understanding and managing expectations with multi generational children. Things get pretty interesting when you’re trying to be supportive of a 27 year old daughter who is an athlete and entrepreneur and a 5 year old  son at the same time. I am new to blogging and working through the maze and all of the areas surrounding this experience. This blog will cover my recent change from having a 26 year career as an executive with a company to making the big decision to be a stay at home mom. Truth be told, if it was up to my husband I would have resigned when I found out I was pregnant in 2013.

After working for over 26 years with the company I never expected to resign and had all expectation of continuing on to the next level in my career. You know what happens when you make plans for your career that does not take into consideration being a mom to a 4 year old at my age and realizing that you are missing out on some of the most memorable moments of his development. I am enjoying every moment and I have to say being a stay at home mom is harder than being senior director to an operational team. What you can proactively plan for in the career world in some cases cannot be done with a 5 year old. I am having fun and making memories but the exhaustion is real and the lack of sleep is overwhelming.

On this site you will find a variety of topics from parenting experiences, travel, lifestyle and other content to inspire and teach. This blog accepts a variety of sponsorship, free products, and other considerations
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